"You can shed tears that she is gone, <br/>or you can smile because she has lived.<br/>You can close your eyes and pray that she’ll come back,<br/>or you can open your eyes and see all she’s left.<br/>Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her,<br/>or you can be full of the love you shared.<br/>You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday, <br/>or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.<br/>You can remember her only that she is gone,<br/>or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.<br/>You can cry and close your mind, <br/>be empty and turn your back.<br/>Or you can do what she’d want:<br/>smile, open your eyes, love and go on." – David Harkins